Him Again...

I was talking to a friend of mine about love. She is in love, and she had to tell someone. You know that new, intense, getting to know you love.

The love I share with my man is much deeper, but I didn't steal her moment. I just smiled and listened because I knew she was happy if she even felt a portion of what I feel for my man.

As the cold weather approaches, the closer we become.

I enjoy the quiet evenings we spend, cuddled up together, doing nothing but feeling everything at the same time. I still have yet to wake up from this dream.

It has been a while since I have posted about him. He just gets better with time. Just when I think things with him can't get any better, he surprises me.

I fell in love with his smile...those dimples...his swagger...his personality...his intelligence. he seems to know something about everything, and if he doesn't know, he's eager to find out. He treats me like a woman. He is gentle with me and tries to protect me at all times, but he gives me enough room to be by own woman. He listens when I speak, even if it is something that I know he doesn't want to hear. He won't comment, but he hears what I have to say. The type of relationship that I have with him is one that I wished for years ago. He wants the same things that I want in life. I am able to plan ahead because we are on the same page. It's crazy how we're in sync and are able to agree on things with little discussion.

He told me yesterday that we are already becoming one... I allow him to be a man (that's not saying that he has control over me), but I give him the opportunity to lead the household because he knows how to take the responsibility without abusing it.

I am happy to do things for him because he puts forth so much effort to keep me happy. We go through things, just like any other couple, but it's how we are able to come through the situations that bring us closer.

When I do things that he doesn't agree with, he shows me what he likes, rather than become confrontational. I have learned through experience to do the same...

I make efforts to keep things spicy around the house ( I am a freak behind closed doors...so is he). It makes for some interesting days and nights...

I'm smiling as I am typing this post because it makes me think of him and what he'd be doing if he were here right now.

He would be all over me...just as he always is when my daughter's not home....and I love it!

I don't have any questions today...just thoughts of the man I love and how me he shows me, that he loves me just as much!