The Wedding Is Off!

That's what I called to tell everyone yesterday. Not because my man and I broke up...but because our families and friends are driving us crazy with all the details...The cake, the dresses, the colors, the guest list, the reception, the planner( she is excellent, but VERY expensive)...Everyone has some type of input. Add that to a stressed out bride-to-be and you have the queen b*** on your hands. What started out as a small, intimate ceremony, has turned into a disaster. They all want to go. How did they all find out?

This wedding is getting to me. This is supposed to be our day. I am supposed to be happy. My man finally said last night. "I have had enough. I want you to be my wife but I don't want a wedding. If you want it, then I'll go through with it, but I really don't want it!" It was like music to my ears. Just like that, I dropped it all...I called to let them all know. One by one, I dialed..I simply said, "The wedding is off ." No explanation. No reasoning... We took control of our day. (We did let our parents and siblings know our intentions. My parents were cool with it. So was his dad, but his mom was furious. She was really starting to get carried away with the whole thing. Oh well!)

So now my man and I have chosen an undisclosed location to get married. We are going to buy tickets for our parents, siblings, Softspoken and my man's best friend and that's it! The tickets will be given to them the day before we leave...End of story!


I feel so much better. With that off my plate, I have more time for me!

Have you ever made a quick decision that turned out to be the best thing for you?

Whether it involves, love, work, finances, or simply your well being, you have to take charge of the things going on in your life!