He's The Best!

My friends are very special to me, but one in particular, Sofspoken is my"bestest-best". Ambitious is right behind him. I hate the fact that he has to travel so much for work, but he enjoys it so I have to be happy for him. He was supposed to be gone for a while but he is back.

I haven't really been spending much time with my friends( with the exception of the party for Ambitious). I have been busy doing my own thing. Softspoken is the one person in the circle who has the ability to get us all together. It's just something about him. He is a positive person and I enjoy being around him so much...We all do. So we all went out to dinner last night. My daughter loves going out with them. She is a little princess in their eyes and of course they all spoil her to death. Even Diva (who hates kids) has a soft spot for her. It's probably the fact that she is very well behaved ( That's the power of a good old fashion butt whooping!).

This family was sitting behind us last night and I wanted to slap the heck out of the parents. They had 3 small kids that were all over the place....Crawling under the tables...Hanging off the chairs...Running and yelling. The waiter had to tell them to get their kids twice and they just sat there talking like nothing was wrong. The manager finally came out and asked them to leave. I was so happy. Don't you just hate it when parents can't control their kids?

Softspoken is coming over today. Whenever he's in town we spend a lot of time together. He tells me all his travel stories and I give him the run down on all the things he missed out on while he was away. I love the fact that he is considerate of my relationship. Although my man is not jealous, Softspoken respects the fact that at a certain time of the day, I turn everything off for my family...He says that even though he is gay, he would never want my man to feel like I am spending all my time with another man.

I have no plans for us today. We'll just hang out and go with the flow until I meet up with my teen girls tonight. We'll talk...we'll eat...we'll laugh...we'll cry...It's good to have a friend in your life that will stick by you no matter what. Most of all, I love the fact that he has a tactful way of telling it like it is. I hate it when people tread lightly around me in fear that I won't do anything for them...I am not like that. If I'm going to do something for you, I'll do it regardless. Somehow hearing things from him makes it so much easier to handle because I know he is telling me from the heart.

Every person should have at least one good friend in their life. A person that can do or say simple things to make your day better. I have a man that does so much for me, but it is still not like my friend.

I love my friend to death and can't wait to spend the day with him.

Do you have any good friends?