Stop Running and Man Up!

Yesterday I was walking around, feeling loved and all...

Well, the s*** hit the fan for my boy yesterday. (I call him a boy toy because he allows my friend to play with him when he wants to, and put him aside when he doesn't)...His boy toy called his house (because my friend would not return his calls) and his girlfriend answered. My friend was not at home at the time. They met for lunch yesterday, and both of them told their side of the story. Then, my friend's girlfriend called him and asked him to meet her. Little did he know that when he got there his boy toy was waiting in the bathroom to further expose their little secret. He came out and he asked how the managed to put it all together and they told him. He then told them his side of the story. He told them that he loved them BOTH but he wanted to be with his woman.

He came by my house in shambles and told me the whole story. I didn't start with the "I told you so's". I hate that. I just gave him a look that said, "That's what your crazy a** gets for trying to deceive people." I listened. He cried. I love him as a friend, but I did not feel sorry for him as a person. What he did was unfair and people got hurt because of his actions. He said that he loves his girl, and wants to stay with her. He says that he and his boy toy are finished because he had no business calling his house. The crazy part about this whole situation is, THEY BOTH STILL WANT HIS A**! The boy toy called his cell phone non-stop while he was at my place.

My friend asked for my opinion, and I gave it to him! I told him I think she is nuts if she stays with him! If my man came to me and told me that he had been secretly having a relationship with a man, I would always feel in the back of my mind that he would always desire a man, and I would leave him alone! I understand love, but this is not love, this is crazy!

I also told him, I think the boy toy is nuts too! My friend told the boy toy that he wants to stay with his woman and his boy toy still wants him. He keeps calling and practically begging my friend to reconsider his decision. I think they all need to let it go and walk away from this thing! I told my friend to consider being by himself for a while and sorting out his own issues. He needs to stop running from the truth! I hope he listens, but I know you can't make people do anything. I can just advise him as a friend, love him, and let him live his life, no matter how twisted I think it is.



I think they should all walk away from this twisted love triangle! I'm just glad it's all over and everyone knows the truth. Actually I'm sure it's far from over... This is like some real life TV movie!

The combination of sleep deprivation over the weekend and drama made me sleep like a baby.

Today I won't be taking any calls or pop up visits from anyone. I am in drama-free mode. I'm going to do a little shopping therapy by myself later this afternoon...My man said that he could see that I was stressed...He bought me shoes and gave me a little something to find an outfit to match. Just one more reason why I love that man. He knows me...

What do you think about this whole thing?

Have you ever been put in twisted situation?