Fears, Dislikes, and Facts

I have had my share of problems...we all have. But one major thing that I noticed is, most of my problems are self-inflicted. By that I mean, many of the issues that I have are transferred to me from the people around me. I choose to take them on...

My friends and I got together at my place yesterday. We all decided to take some time out and just talk...Which is something that we haven't done in a while. I got a lot out of the conversation. The whole thing had me thinking...I had so many questions in my head, as I always do, but I wondered...Do we ever really know people?

We all sat around, and me, being the one who always puts the issues out there for discussion, started up as usual. I always make up some kind of crazy game to play. I said, "Let's tell three things about ourselves that no one else her knows. The first one must be a fear, the second a dislike, and the third a fact (about your sex life)." That was a risky topic, because my Boo and a couple of my friends' mates were there as well, but what the hell...

So I started...1)I have a fear of drowning (...and I have my own pool). 2)I dislike when people always call me for money(I got a couple of dirty glances). 3)The fact is...I love to have spontaneous sex. I know mine were a bit boring, but it goes on from there.

My Boo...1)I have a fear of spiders. 2)I dislike people who are negative all the time. 3)The fact is, after sex, I loved to be kissed... all over (I took note to that...)

Next (Male)...1)I have a fear of commitment. 2)I dislike women who think that just because you had sex with them, it's okay to act like you're in a relationship. 3)The fact is, I lose interest in a woman after sex....Meaning, if I had any serious interest in her in the beginning, it leaves after she gives it up...I don't know why, it just does.

Next (Female)...1)I have a fear of dogs. 2)I dislike grown men that expect women to take care of them. 3) The fact is...I have been with over 200 men in some sort of sexual scenario. ( This one blew my mind! We were all looking at her like she was crazy. She just sat there unaffected. She came with one of my guy friends. I don't think she'll be back)

The game went on and on, and a lot of secrets were revealed...

A fear of impotency...A fear of being alone...A fear being robbed...A fear of dreaming(I thought that one was weird)

Disliking cheater...liars...women with thin lips...women with very short hair(shaved)...people who brag about what they have...men who brag about the size of their "you know what"...people who love to have sex all the time...

...And it went on from there.


(This is just for fun, so you don't have to do it if you don't want to...)

1)Name one fear that you have.
2)Name one thing you dislike about people.
3)Name one sexual fact about you.