Random Ranting...

In the midst of all my drama, I am able to find peace. My Boo, even with his little faults, is a wonderful man. He regretted the way that he had allowed the Tucker situation to affect us, so he made up for it!

Yesterday, we went to the lake after my daughter got out of school. As you all know, I am not a big fan of "the woods", but this place was really nice. There is a park there for the kids, picnic tables, and a bike trail, which we all took advantage of. Normally, this would be a nice weekend trip for us, I but it is supposed to rain all weekend, and my daughter will be with her dad, so I plan to be hugged up somewhere with my Boo...

He did all the cooking...It's sad to say, but I love to be right. I don't argue, I just sit and listen. Or should I say, I give the other person the illusion that I am actually listening to them. Normally, the other person will talk themselves into trouble. The best thing about getting into an argument, is making up afterwards...I won't go into details, but lets just say...I had a very good evening. ( No friends...No drama...but the week is just getting started.)

Just a few things in my head today...

-If you don't want to hear what I have to say, don't ask me for my opinion.

-If you don't like my hair, or what I'm wearing, please don't tell me, because I don't like yours either, I was just being nice. Obviously , I like it because I have it on!

-If you call me and leave me a message to call you back...Just wait until I call you. Don't keep calling me. I got your message, I just DON'T want to talk to you...

-Do not call my house and say, "Who is this?" when I answer the phone. You called me!

-Don't put on an outfit that looks ridiculous and then ask me, "How do I look?" You know how you looked when you left the house. Don't get mad at me when I tell you the truth.

-Don't ask me if I think you're getting fat. My opinion of getting fat is different from yours. Use your better judgment. If you have a problem fitting the jeans that you wore just last month, it might be time to push away from the table.

-When you call my house to borrow money. Don't beat around the bush with the small talk. Just tell me how much you want and get off my phone.

- If you have no job, don't ask me to borrow money, ask me if you can HAVE it. You can't pay me back. It's okay. If I want you to have it, I'll give it to you regardless.

- If you borrow money from me and the time comes to pay me back, don't keep calling me to tell me all the reasons why you CAN'T pay me. Just call me when you have the money.

-Don't ask me "Is everything is okay"" when you see me dragging my kid out of the store by the collar and she has tears running down her face? I'm fine!

-Don't get mad when I make your kids sit down when they come to my house. Just because you let them tear your s*** up doesn't mean I am going to let them do the same thing to mine.

-Don't get mad when you bring your destructive kids to my house and hide all my daughter's toys before they come. I actually want her to have them after your kids leave.

-Don't tell me, "You think you're all that!" No YOU think I'm all that...Thank you for noticing...

-Don't ask me how much something costs if you have no intention on spending the money to buy it. You are wasting my breath and your time.

-Don't spend your bill money shopping, and then call me for money. Don't expect me to always be there. I try to be there as much as I can...But don't expect me to always bail you out of situations. The day that you really need me, will be the day I'll say no.

- If I am not talking, there is nothing wrong with me. I just don't feel like talking.

- If you are calling me to complain about your man, and you know he is doing you wrong, just hang up the phone before I answer. I will not be upset because you hung up the phone. I am just going to tell you what I think about him and you will just get upset. Save us both the time and stress.

-If you have something bad to say about one of my close friends and you don't want them to know, DON"T TELL ME. I am going to tell them, and then TELL YOU that I told them. End of story.

- If you know me, and you see me, just say hello. It is not necessary to start a conversation with me every time you see me. When I am in the line at the pharmacy and I have a sick child standing beside me, I don't give a d*** about a sale at Saks!

-Please don't ask me, "Where did you get that shirt, or those pants, or those shoes, etc?" I am not going to tell you. I DO NOT want you to have on the same thing. I will conveniently forget every time...

- If you ask me where I am going and I don't invite you to go...Just leave it alone. Don't ask if it is okay if you tag along. If I wanted you to go with me, I would ask.

- Don't call me and ask me how my Boo and I are doing, and then start trying to find things wrong in my relationship. I can think for myself. If my Boo wanted to know how you would act in a situation, he would be in a relationship with you, not me. Worry about you!

-Don't try to hook me up with your brothers, cousins, homeboys, etc...If they are 30, jobless, have no car, have 3 different baby-mammas...and have no intention on doing anything about it...There is a reason why they are still single...Don't get mad at me when I say no thanks. It has nothing to do with you and me.

-Don't have a big wedding after you have lived with a man for 10 years and the two of you already have 3 kids. It's a waste.

-If you see that my daughter is not at home, It is a sign...Don't ask me to keep your kids. The answer is NO.

- If you have a man in your life that doesn't like your kids, MOVE ON. He is SO not worth it. Never choose a man over your child.

What gets on your nerves?